Tuesday, July 17, 2007

女人感悟


如果男人以他忙为理由,不来探你的病情,不回你的邮件,不关心你的现状,不能和你承担生活的重负,无法给你勇气。

勇敢一点,自动离开。

没有什么比自己关心自己来的实在。

而一个不珍惜你的人,你付出的再多,他再好,那也不过是浪费时间和精力。

《摘自星洲日报16/07/2007》

24 comments:

Anonymous said...

........ know what to do and do it is a good sign of moving forward....

know what to do but never do it... it is the saddest thing in life...

manfoong1001 said...

以一个男人的角度,能这样对自己的女人原因的确只有这个:他其实并不太关心你。。。
如果这真的发生在你身上,还是勇敢离开吧。
要是我是女人的话...我宁愿选择女人好了, 毕竟我始终还是觉得女人好嘛。。。。哈哈

Anonymous said...

嗯,总算知道可以用什么办法继续在你的部落留言了...^^
是否还要相信,是否还要再爱,都不再重要了。
就,云淡风轻吧!
加油,我美丽且善良的学姐。^^
谢谢你给我的留言哦,我会好好的。

-翠-

Zantezuken said...

文章上说的是对的...
但偏偏很多人就是难以离开
不知为何执着
不知为何守候

只有等到时间经过...
才慢慢离开吧...

Anonymous said...

"galimbeh kijiaksai"!

haha know who am i rite?
all da best!

stella_baby said...

To 翠:好一句云淡风轻。。。

To everybody here:10s4reading my blog & give some constructive comments.10 u 2 o my readers~

Anonymous said...

Actually for me… this kind of guy… no need consider more… if in pak toh process oso can’t spend his time to take care of his beloved… how about during marry time… the guy at this article same as my fren… he break with his gf because the gal get very bad sick… n he admit not dare to takecare her whole of life… in this world… still got lot ppl concern n admirer us… dun because one small small character reject all… choose the best… wat we comment here is easy but wat we do in the real world will be very hard… but we must hav strong mind thinking… dun let love over our clear mind…

Anonymous said...

He really din care of u o u demand him too much. I believe everyone who in love not to blame her/his counterpart. Have u really do ur best even. Not jus to think at ur own perpective as it not tat terrible u think.
"Actually for me… this kind of guy… no need consider more… if in pak toh process oso can’t spend his time to take care of his beloved… how about during marry time…" This words really easy to say it out, i also can express it easily. Eeveryone also can say but have u really look through the whole story on it.

Anonymous said...

"Eeveryone also can say but have u really look through the whole story on it."
you also know to say this but don't know how to apply it on yourself.

Anonymous said...

haha the BF finally voiced out... lets see how he defends himself...
and stella, what is your say?

stella_baby said...

To "i am the judge": funny ur nick..cool down everybody, jz comment based on tis article,whether agree or nt,give ur opinion, tts o.Once again,10s 4 reading my blog~ :)

Anonymous said...

'This words really easy to say it out, i also can express it easily. Eeveryone also can say but have u really look through the whole story on it.'
Sure i din really look tru on the whole story...i just comment based on wat she write...even u oso comment on someone blog based on wat they write n wat u think...

Anonymous said...

To :"Eeveryone also can say but have u really look through the whole story on it."


seem like the 1 not really know wat was happen is u....i'm can sure u oni hear the story from one part of them , taht mean u also duno everything..

dont pretend thr u really know everthing..

after u know evrything oni comment here!


regards,
BJ

Anonymous said...

gogogo, fire in the hole! kakakak...

Anonymous said...

wah this anonymous so naughty lar wan start war here huh? let's make peace, come on... let bygone to be bygone lar no point making troubles right? heh, just my 2 cents, no flaming pls... :p

Anonymous said...

爱情不长久,长久的不是爱情,不肯认输的人不停地追求一个永远,最后还是臣服于岁月

Anonymous said...

果有一天,注定两个人走到同一个岔路口,是携手前进?还是转身走开,朝着不同的方向远去?我们都无从知晓,也许爱情的美好就在于它的不确定。爱情的旅程就像是四季的交替,春天,我们在十字路口播种下爱情的憧憬与希望;夏天,草场上是我们飞扬的梦,在太阳无私的宠爱里,我们像孩子一样笑着、闹着;秋天,我们背靠背,品尝丰收的果实,手挽手,踏着红地毯,走向幸福;冬天,刺骨的寒风见证着爱情的坚定,既然牵手,就不会分开,是的,爱情最美,它是青涩、激情、满足和希望的轮回之旅。

Anonymous said...

带着微笑对他说忘记,不必有太多的忧伤..
忘记不该记住的,留下的就是那段"最美的回忆".
好吧

stella_baby said...

有心人:或许,所谓最美的回忆,其实也只是假象?无谓去猜是真是假,删除回忆就是最美的回忆。。

Anonymous said...

青春的故事都发生得太突然,甚至是让人产生幻觉,而春天的故事也都太短,只能在雨季里迎接一个开始和另一个结束。有人说,只有在童话里才能感受到爱情,其实那是一种奢侈!平淡的感情虽然没有山盟海誓的承诺和生离死别,但也正是因为这种平淡的渐渐流失,而使得真情变得弥足珍贵。就像一束简单的香水百合,新鲜却也简单..

Anonymous said...

今生已无缘,半生苦求缘,可换来生缘?不知道所谓的缘字诀是否还铭记在心里,但是当“缘字诀几番轮回你锁眉哭红颜唤不回”的声音流淌在他心里的时候,他发现,一滴眼泪已经在眼眶中打转,突然发现生命是由疼痛组成的,不管谁付出了谁 ,不管谁埋葬了谁,我需要做的 ,永远都是沉默和流泪.对不起

Anonymous said...

或许,所谓最美的回忆,其实也只是假象?无谓去猜是真是假,删除回忆就是最美的回忆。。
应该的..只要自己开心就好什么都别想.去寻找疼你自己的她..别再留念了..

Anonymous said...

雪,在夜的衬托下,格外的美丽、清晰。睫毛上的冰凉是逝去的承诺,发稍上的白色凝固了许久的回忆。推开窗,哈气的颜色也是朦胧的白,如淡淡的雾,瞬间笼罩而又瞬间消失......为什么在这宁静的黑夜,我们却要承受太多白色的重量?终于明白为什么黑色与白色才是生命的永恒之色. 每一幅脑海中的画面都精美到极点,真爱在黑白之间徜徉,曾经的厮守化为如今的一纸诺言。我们懂得,无论黎明有多么黑暗,迎接它的,却仍是梦寐以求的光明。

Anonymous said...

什么时候,我们开始苦苦地在深海中寻找脚印,却忘了为自己停泊?原来,我们一直在黑暗中摸索,却忘了点那盏灯。如果再见到你,我们是否可以回到当初那陌生的一笑?生命是条轮回的路程,爱情就是一路最依稀可见的风景,虽然遥远,却也真实。那如烟般的回忆与痛苦,瞬间凝聚成无所谓的寂寞,弹指间,绕过心头。 不知从何时起,我们都学会了沉默,取而代之的是手指间的游走。那是一种纪念的方式,也是爱情连绵不绝的痕迹。指尖按下的每一个字符都被岁月抹平,期待的,往往是付出之后的落寞。